Big things comes in small packages.
Big things have small beginnings.
Small men with big hearts.
”some of the famous proverbs”
Scenario one :- A beautiful couple , smiling faces , in love with each other , holds hands together , can’t take their eyes off each other. seems like a perfect match. the only difference is that a guy is little short than a woman. but still they are happy . they are in love , love is a beautiful feeling. love is something each one of us want more than anything in life. yet its the most deprived emotion. a couple with height difference still lives with everything. they are together for a long time now , don’t care about what this world has to say. they don’t care about the society , its people. they are just into each other . they don’t live their lives for themselves but they live for each other. height is height , some bones grow some don’t . its alright to be shorter for a man from a woman and its also alright for a woman to be taller from a man. yes every woman wants her man to be taller than her and stronger than her . but its always good to ignore what the appearance has to say than what the man really is. what he is from inside speaks volumes about him , not how short he is. couple in love who don’t care about the height difference is happy. they go out together holding hands for shopping. they socialize with people and take pride in each other being together in spite of height difference. they enjoy time together and their company and always be together come what may , it don’t matter to them who is tall and who is short. they care for each other and sets an example that they are together come what may.
Here its important to note that man and woman both have no problems with height difference. they see a person and value each other. they understand that what a man and woman has given into each other and the time they have spent till now is important and its someone’s life which has gone by and the time gone can’t be return. so they value each other ‘s time , they feel proud of each other and feel important and feel like there is someone who cares for them and loves them and want to be with them.
Scenario two :- A beautiful couple , smiling faces , in love with each other, don’t holds hands together , they can’t take their eyes off each other but don’t feel comfortable. man is shorter than woman but still they are together. they are into each other but they don’t socialize and go out like a couple . they feel bad since woman is taller to man , man feels guilty that why he is shorter to woman , woman feels the same and it ruins everything. they wish if someone was shorter and someone was taller. but its not to be , its different for them since their mindset is a home to insecurities. they feel ashamed of each other and think they should never be together. since man is short he feels inadequate , woman wants to feel weak but she thinks that she is stronger to her man since he is shorter to her. they don’t go out together and don’t see friends since they think that they will make fun of them since there is a height difference.
Here its important to not that both man and woman feels uncomfortable due to height difference.
So what’s with the height ?
Height has always played an important role in mating. woman has always wanted her man to be taller and stronger to her. she has always desired for a man who is physically strong , macho , handsome and stands out of the crowd. a man who has the ability to stop the show. who has the ability to turn the tide , confident man has always been a dream for a woman , An alpha man.
So does it mean that a short man has no chance to stand ?
Its all in the attitude. a short man can not be short if he stands for himself and shows that he is more than just being short. its a different story all together for a man who is short not only from other man but also from woman. there is absolutely no reason why a small man think he is small and why he should not think that he is big in many ways.
Ever loved a woman who is taller to you ?
You love someone , you stay with her at all times. you want to make her happy , make her happy with your other traits. you got so much into you than just being a short man. its only a matter of few inches. only few inches from how tall she is from you and how short you are from her. stay confident and stay optimistic at all times. take pride in what you are and what you have achieved. its not easy to love a woman who is taller to you since you lack basic thing which is height and this is what she will see first but if you have traits which will make her overlook your short height , you are in the game.
Confidence is the key . high spirits and never say die attitude. love your woman , she needs you. she wants you . even if she leaves you or say ten things to you because of your short height , you said you love her ,you show you love her , don’t just say that you love her . there are million others who find it easy to say I love you but tough to do , a man who can show what he say is the man who is a man in real. a real man always stays with his woman and stays by her side, in hard times and in good times, he never leaves hope. she is a woman , she still loves you but don’t want to be with you because you are short in height ? don’t loose heart , you are strong enough to fight all this , you have fought all this long , you have gone through all the pain and told her nothing about it only to make her feel important and valued. yes you are short its real but its only a matter of few inches , you both love each other , height should not be a parameter to judge someone in person. value what a person has sacrificed for you , he/she has given you his / her time. part of his/ her life which can not be return. value it ,don’t make each other regret that it was a time wasted , take it as an investment, it always have fruitful results provided both feel comfortable with each other heights.
Insecurities are the biggest enemies you can have. every one has insecurities and we try to hide those in our own ways , you love your woman who is taller to you and she has insecurities ? support her , instead of walking away from her , you stick to her and stay with her to give your shoulder. this is the time when she needs you the most , this the time she needs your shoulder when she cry, she needs you to comfort her and want that emotional touch which you have always been providing all this time. inspire her , motivate her , you are her stronghold , protect her , so what you are shorter to her , you are her man ,its your duty to protect your woman and above all love her. she wants love , you are near or far ,won’t matter , you love her since she loves you too . no matter how cold she becomes in her attitude and how much she blames you for your short height you stay with your woman. you loved her right ? so you standby her . don’t be cold her since she is cold to you. understand how she is thinking and how she is feeling. once you will understand her psyche you will know how to deal with it. don’t blame her for what she is doing ? she is been practical but you too become practical to her and show her that you still love her in real life as the way you loved her then. its important for a woman to feel loved. either way by any means show it to her.
Step up and stay confident , life is more than just being short in height , there are so many ways a short man can be big , there are so many ways to show that you are something and you have traits and qualities which can easily over shadow your height. you do anything , stay confident . you love your woman , stay confident , positive and hopeful that someday things will be alright. if you are destined to be together, you will still be together no matter what happens.
You stay strong and give what is the best emotions in this world and its love , love your woman like never before , she is short or tall ,its only bones and few inches difference.
Are you strong enough to do it ? do it today and do it now . you will have love all your life.
Dheeraj Gautam 