I Love You ! Is it tough to say and easy to stand by ?


You love her from the bottom of your heart and ready to do anything possible in a good way. you can’t live without her and think about her all the time. you are good enough to balance love and life and give ample space in relationship so that she don’t feel uncomfortable. you are ready for her whenever and wherever she needs you. you sacrifice everything to make sure that she remains happy and don’t let her know the pain you are going through.

Why you do all this ? what is the motive and what is the purpose ? what makes you do this ? what drives you and motivates you ?

Often you come across these questions in relationship and try to find what you are doing is right or wrong. or try to find if this is a right approach to relationship.

A guy and a girl going around for few months , they are happy together, everything is going nice . they compliment each other and dreams together to make their own small world. they say three magical words to each other ” I LOVE YOU ” and swear by it . things changes after sometime ,life changes ,priorities changes and they don’t say ”I LOVE YOU ” anymore to each other. it all seems to get over for them and they realize they made mistake by being together. they should never have said ”I LOVE YOU”. they regret their decision and move on with life to find someone else to say ”I LOVE YOU” again.


In today’s time its easy to say I love you every now and then since there is no shortage of love. you fall in love with one and break up after sometime to fall in love again. love has become so easy these days that we don’t give importance to it anymore and take it for granted and think that life is too short to live and there be no love tomorrow you better go searching for it now. may be we should not go searching for love outside. may be we should not go looking for that special someone outside. what we should do is to love ourselves first and make ourselves important and special so that what we are looking for comes to us , not we go out looking for it in this world.

This world has become very small now. social networks ,dating websites, communities have made it easy to develop relationship with people even from far end. you register yourself on dating websites ,pay the price for better services ,make a nice profile and post attractive images online to invite more and more viewers. the other day you log in to your profile only to see tons of emails in your inbox from people around who are looking to develop relationship with you. you feel happy and think that you have scored big one here and ready for another. Its a way of life and its ok to have this kind of approach and there is nothing wrong in it. Its all in the attitude , are you serious in your approach ? or are you only wasting your time and others.

Couples-in-Love-love-stories-15142617-395-400       Don’t give anyone any false hopes and don’t show them dreams which are out of reach. its not good to play with someone’s life nor its good to play with someone’s emotions. respect what you have , respect what you are about to get into. if you love a woman ,stay with her come what may . if you love someone so much that even if he / she walks away from you ,you still remain loyal to them ,don’t think you are out of the game or don’t think that you are no value to them , its the truth that they are missing you and they still love you . you love that special one so much and stayed loyal to them , you stayed with them at all times either near or far away but you are with them emotionally if not physically , value this in you that you are so strong that you are still moving on with life with this love which give you pain and makes you happy. its a love which you have always been proud of , its a love which has always made you feel more wanted and made you feel strong and motivated you to go any heights to make sure that the person you love knows that how much you love her/ him.

Even then ,  its easy to say that love don’t happen once but many times. yes its true , its does happen many times in one life. you can always have one love after another . you can always have good relationship after another. but again everything comes down to an approach . everything comes down an attitude.

When you feel you love someone and that someone is not good enough to realize your true value ask these questions to yourself .

what is the reason she / he not responding ?

why is she / he so quiet ?

why is she / he  not answering your phone calls or replying to your mails ?

why there is an attitude of ignorance ?

Matching-Tattoos-for-Couples-idea     It could be anything , any reason and any excuse will do to answer these questions. may be there is a possibility that he / she want you to move on with life and want you to be a better person . if this is how they are thinking you need to make sure that they understand that life don’t end with them . you need to make them realize that there is life without them and there is life after them. you should tell me that yes I loved you but I can still live without you. you cherish the time you had together and value your relationship and take pride in it , she / he know that and they still love you for everything but may be they don’t want to be with you. accept it . but don’t let them go out of your life. love them the way you have loved so far . stay loyal to them you may never know when they will need you again. trust them and have faith in the person you really loved.

Its easy to say ”I LOVE YOU ” but its tough to stand by it. its really tough to stay with person you love with today’s fast paced and ever changing life style. rarely you get people who are loyal to their once partners who have left them. people call this stupid but its not stupidity its taking pride in what you have valued ,its taking pride in what you have cherished.

You love your woman or man , make sure you stay with them ,come what may ,never leave them. this world is horrible at the same time its beautiful ,its all in the attitude. you want love , you give love . you want pain , you give pain.

Say ”I LOVE YOU” to someone special today and make sure you really mean it and stick to it . believe me it will come to you.

These three magical words are indeed magical , we only need realize its value ,to you may be these are only three letters but to someone its a matter of life and death.

Value it !

Don’t say you love me !

Every night i walk up to my window to see the star which we used to see together,do u remember this honey ? remember the time ,when we used to go to the window holding hands and looked at the shining star which seemed to make a contact with us.that shining star was like making an image in our mind and heart, of love we shared together.this shining star was a connection between you and me.it was the source of an energy between you and me.shining so brightly in the night sky ,it looked like its saying to us ,don’t worry you two i am here for you.no matter how far you are from each other i will still be making connection between you two.

Even today i reach out to my window and look at this star ,its still there shining brightly as it used to be.it never lost its shine and charm.its still there at the top in the night sky ,shining so brightly.if i want to take a good look at it ,I go to my terrace.this is where it looks at its best in the open night sky.i still feel the connection honey ,do you feel the same ? everytime i look at it ,it makes me think of you .every time i look at this shining brightly star which is there for us , it makes a connection between you and me.this is what it’s there for.it makes a connection between you and me even from this distance.it says to me when i look at it , it says that your baby is just fine.your baby is full of love and she is getting love from you in the form of an energy.this energy can be reach anywhere you want it to be.its the energy transformation between two souls and i am doing it for you,you need not to worry about it.just look at me and think about the woman you love and your message will be delivered.

I feel so good after all this because i know i don’t need to worry about my baby since our star is there for us ,its taking care of us.two young souls in love would not ask for anything more than this beautiful gesture from heavenly body.universe is with us honey.trust your instincts and have no doubts in your mind ,when there is a doubt it blocks you from what you want to do.have faith and show full trust in your man.your man has been honest to you ,has shown faith in you,has loved you as what you are ,supported you in all respects,stood by you at all times either with you or away.trust your man honey.trust him that he can take care of you,trust him for what he stands for.trust him for what he do today and how its going to be tomorrow.

Any man’s biggest strength is his woman , he can have everything in life and still he will not be happy if his woman is not him,he will be incomplete without her.one woman completes his man ,man feels like one complete and true identity when he has his woman with him.some one who stands by his side ,gives him support, is there when he feels down and depress,helps him when he need her the most,gives him her shoulder when he need to rest his head.man need woman to fight with this world.this world is one beautiful place and once hell of a place.what form it takes for man and her woman depends completely on them.couples in love stays together often come across all the obstacles to be together.no language ,no boundaries,no culture differences,no distances means nothing to them.this all becomes irrelevant to them when they only see each other but nothing else.

I am your man honey and you are my woman then why there are doubts ,lets not get these issues ,doubts ,problems come between us.its not healthy neither its doing any good to us.its there and its creating problems between you and me.when your man is by your side you need not to worry about anything my love.your man stood by you this long and will always be like this for the rest of his life.he never looked at any other woman when you are around with him or when you are in his mind and in his heart.he got himself committed to you completely.many time he got questioned by people that if i am sure about what i am doing and what i want out of this relationship.i had no doubt in my mind and i knew what i wanted.i always said my baby is with me at all times and i don’t feel need for any other woman in my life.i can’t make my baby cry and want to see her upset.I don’t want to cheat on my baby and yes i am committed to her and i am taken and not available.sorry !

Sorry ?? why sorry ? i never said sorry to anyone on this and why i should ,is there anything wrong i am doing to people for which i should say sorry . no its not required , i am brave to be in this kind of relationship and being this loyal and faithful only makes me proud.i am proud of my relationship and i have always valued my woman’s presence in my life and always admired her for what she stands for.i love her so much.to me boundaries ,language and culture has no meaning when i am with her.this is the woman i love and she is the one i want to spend rest of my life with.

I say i love you because i want to make you feel that i love you, i love you to me are not just three magical words which man and woman always wants to hear ,its an energy which gives hope , peace,love ,affection and admiration to people who are in love.every day is a beautiful day and every day brings new hope and every day becomes even more to admire for if some one some where listen to these three magical words i love you.if i am telling you that i love you ,i am doing the energy formation which takes place in the universe and gives my woman a new hope , a new life which she desires for.she can feel it in heart that her man loves her even after all this problems and issues, he is still with her and stands by her.gives her a kiss which wind takes to her.gives a love bite which my soul take it to you and leaves it on your cheeks,give you a warm hug which earth takes to you and plants it on your body and makes you feel warm when you need one.

Where are you my baby ,without you my life is so incomplete.your man is strong but he is not that strong that he will live without you.a man can get everything in life, he can have fame,money,a good job, all the luxuries in life but if he has no woman and no family ,all this be of no use.he is still poor and makes no gain.love is the greatest gift from god to us humans.this is something which never gets over no matter how much you spend it.love is something which always gets more and more and more and more,the more you spend it the more you gain it.showering your love on someone you love is not wrong.

This world is hard place to live and at the same time this world is beautiful place to live,depends how you make it for yourself.i decided to love a woman beyond boundaries ,to me country ,language ,culture ,cast did not matter , all i saw a human ,just another one and happened to be a woman i loved the most so far.i am not ready to give up on my baby because i know that she will come to me,she needs me ,she loves me so how i can leave her behind.i want to hold your hands honey and want go on the trip of this life.i want to have a family of beautiful kids,a home ,one happy big family ,an eventful life and for all this we need each other support.

Don’t you want this all baby ? ask a question to yourself now ,would you be able to live without me,sure you leave me tonight and say i will find another man but would you be able to lie to yourself that you did not love me and our union was just for fun and enjoyment ?would you lie to your star which you will still find outside your window shining brightly asking you that hey you left a man who loved you so much,who stood by your side at all times,yes he took time but still he came for you because he never allowed you to cry anymore,you left him ,why did you do that ? what would you do then honey?

Don’t punish yourself baby , your man don’t want to see you in pain.your man don’t want to see you cry or depress.remember the days when you used to cry when i was away from you and did not show up for few days and you thought something may have gone wrong with him ? do u remember the days when you used to wait for me for hour’s and hour’s only to see me smile ?how can you forget the wedding song we decided on to dance ? how can you forget the promises we made for our kids and for ourselves ?

Honey i never changed a bit ever since we had met, why have you changed my love ?

Remember this always honey , your man has stood by you at all times and he still there with you.your man loves you and he ready to give his all to protect you ,to take care of you.

Don’t you need a man like this in your life honey ?

I need you in my life baby ,i need you by my side. this world won’t matter to us once we feel like we were in love before.

Don’t say you love me ,you have said it enough and showed it enough ,its time to live your love.

For her it was an ACCIDENT – To me it was my DESTINY

An old man ,frail looking , not walking with the help of a stick , with a cell phone in his upper pocket ,comes to Finsbury Park,sits on a bench and does nothing,he just sits there from morning to evening.he carries a bag ,in which he got a bottle of milk,three sandwiches,a newspaper,a bottle of water,a pen , a notepad and couple of eye glasses.he just sits there with all these items in his bag from morning to evening and don’t move till 6 pm.who is the man ? why is he here ? what makes him do this everyday? is he normal or abnormal? or is he waiting for someone ?

These are the questions which always used to pop up in my mind everytime when i used to see this man at Finsbury Park.he always encouraged me to ask questions with his daily routine.but i never had a courage but one day i did get an oppertunity.

Not long ago when i was in London,i used to live in Finsbury Park.Finsbury Park is an amazing neighbourhood to live in.it has a huge commercial park for people which is also known as Finsbury Park.since Finsbury Park is quite big the entire locality got a name under this park.i had great time staying here since it was really nice neighbourhood with everything available and nice people and yes offcourse not to forget a huge park.

I was in the habbit of going to the park and jog for about an hour.it was really nice since it had made my entire day and i always felt like full of energy at work throughout.

This was the time in the morning when i used to see this old man coming to the park and sit on the bench ,he used to stay there for long period of time.well i never had any idea for how long he stayed there since morning but i was told by people that this man stays here since morning till evening.

It was amazing ,i was here in this locality for quite sometime now but  i had never seen  a man with this mental toughness and at this age , i guess the way he looked like he must be about 70 plus.Either winter ,rain ,summer or spring but this man never missed a single day to come to Finsbury Park.

There are plenty of old folks used to come to the park for walking at night or in the morning but this one stayed in my mind for his unusual attitude.he really intrigued me and others also,where others decided not to speak to this old man and left him on his own i decided to walk up to him and talk.

I had this in my mind for quite a long time but i never got courage to speak to him coz i was hesitant. but i knew the day will come and i will ask him the question i had in my mind for so long.i had not to wait for too long and the day came when i got a chance to talk to him.slowly and slowly i approached him,i was breathing heavily and was tense.

I sat right next to him, he looked at me and i looked right into his eyes.for some reason i cud not get my eyes off him,his eyes were still so young ,it felt like that his eyes were dieing to shed tears or were waiting for someone.he looked at me, deep into my eyes and i looked into his. i smiled at him and he smiled too.

Even before i asked him a question he said

OLD MAN :- You must be thinking who i am and what i am doing here ?

ME :-  ‘Yes sir you are right ‘

OLD MAN:-  ‘I am staying here in this locality for a very long time now and i have lived here ever since i met my girlfriend.

i was kind of confused i said ‘what sir what ?

OLD MAN :-  ‘I had a girl friend who i loved from the bottom of my heart, i loved her so much that i left everything for her to be with her.she was the only one i loved in my entire life, i loved her till eternity.we had so many plans , we planned about our future,we planned about our kids and everything one couple would plan for.we were committed to each other ,we were loyal,honest and faithfull to each other .

ME :-  ‘Sounds really nice to me ‘so she must be very happy with you right ,since she got a man who loved her so much ,right ‘ ?

OLD MAN :-  ‘She is not with me son ‘.

I was like ok, what’s going on here .

ME :-  ‘Oh ok ! what happened then ?’

OLD MAN :- ‘ One day she left and left me a message which reads ‘It was an accident .you and me meeting together was an accident.she left me here all alone to fight against all odds and i am still waiting for her ,because i knew she loved me too and i still love her ,my love for her never fainted and it grew more and more and more with every day and every night. she left me, son.

I was in the state of shock i did not know how to react what to say ,what to do.

OLD MAN :- ‘ But i don’t blame her son,may be i was not the guy for her ,she  married to someone offcourse ,i always wanted to see her happy and fine ,i don’t know where is she now but all i want her to be happy and fine where ever she is.

My throat was chocked and i was speechless ,i saw a man who was in love and still in love with the girl he lived with ages ago and he is still with her.

OLD MAN :- ‘Our love story started right here on this bench when one day she came here and sat right next to me ,right here on this bench we smiled and kissed each other , right here on this bench we hugged and planned for future,this is the bench where it all started son,this is where it all started and this is where she left me a note ,but i still believe that one day my baby will come to me and will see how much i loved her.i never wanted anything in life but her and her happiness but she left me with my share of happiness, sweet memories to cherish ,the time i spent with her will here to stay with me forever.i come here on this bench every single day since i know that she is still here right next to me on this bench and watching me the way she used to do it.

I could not stop there for long next to the old man , i walked away from him silently without saying a word , i knew that his wait will never be over and he is happy being in this condition since he loved one woman and could not loved another,he was so loyal and faithful that he still come to the same place where he met her and still believe that she will come to him.

It was 6 pm and i saw this old man walking away from the bench slowly and slowly ,slowly slowly he fades away from my eyes ,i knew, it was the time for him to go home and reboot himself for another day where he will come again and sit on this bench for the entire day where he met his sweetheart ages ago.For his sweetheart it was an accident but to him it was his destiny.