Very few of us have the courage to fight for others.most of us fight for themselves , a
sense of selfishness , pain for others but not for us , greediness , others
should be poor but we should be rich. We should have everything we need but we
don’t care much about others. How hostile this world has become. We don’t want to live but also don’t want to die because we have so many objectives and
so many ambitions that a life of hundred years seem short. We want more and
more and we want more of everything which include our lives. But unfortunately
we don’t have enough time and enough reason for others.
Recently I was going through an article which was about eye donation. How many of us
donate eyes for less fortunate people who can’t see ? Answer is obvious , very
few of us do that. We are about 7 billion people on this planet but very few of
us think about donating our eyes this is because most of us are always tied to
our daily routine and commitments.
Eyes are life and life is vision. If we can’t see we can’t live. Spare a thought about
those who are less fortunate and can’t see . How different is their lives from
us and how they live. It’s so tough.imagine life without eyes and everything
will be dark. Even a thought about it , is scary. Think about those people who
are without eyes. How tough its for them to survive. How difficult its for them
to perform daily task. How tough its for them to socialise with people on
regular basis. It’s tough.
Think about how simple we can make life for them if we contribute our bit. How easy it can be for them to do their regular task if we help them. How happy they can be if we do something to make them happy. We don’t have to buy expensive gifts for them or give them money or get them a job which pay hefty salary they don’t need. It’s of no use to them. What we should do, is
show them that they are strong and they don’t need support from anyone. We
should make them feel strong and make them feel valuable so that they can do
something with their lives instead they see themselves weak and burden to the
Many times people commit suicide when they feel that they are not important to
anyone , not loved by anyone and not valuable to the society they live in.
Sense of shame and insecurity sinks in and they shy away from meeting people ,
they hide in the closet and refrain themselves from any interaction. Some of
them start taking drugs to release there pain and confidence also takes a hit.
When anyone like this goes through pain it’s critical for us to
show our support to them so that they don’t feel isolated. If we isolate them
then it will become an excuse for them to hurt themselves. And as a human on
humanitarian grounds we show our willingness to help them.
Remember,we will not become strong by pulling someone down but by lifting someone up
People who come forward to help less fortunate are TITANS. They think about others
first before they think of themselves.for them others happiness is first and
their own joy is secondary. For them its important that you smile first , you
eat food first and you sleep first before they think about themselves. People
like these are Titans and its as simple as that because there are not many of
them in this world.
So be a
You are time
I often see people complaining or cribbing about time. Time which they don’t have.time which is defined in 24/7 for everyone but even then people have number of things to say about how less time they have for the activities they want to do. They crib about they are busy all day and have very less time for themselves. It’s also understandable and obvious to say that we all live very busy life. In times of technology where every month we have one smartphone launch in the market , where we see one brand new car on the roads and it populates the city but we don’t complain , in times of social activities which takes place on social media such as what’s app, viber, Facebook and MySpace, it’s an irony that we have so many tools available to make our lives simple but even then we find no time for ourselves.
We don’t need rocket science to understand what time is and how important it is for us. We don’t need to be an expert to understand how to make best use of our time. But unfortunately even then most of us fail miserably in this task and waste so much of our time which is so important to us.
If we use our time efficiently we can end up doing number of things in 24/7 schedule. We all want to do but we don’t do it , reason being that we don’t have willingness to do it.
Now let’s understand what is a willpower and why it’s so important. In fact it’s one of the most important aspect of our personality but we don’t pay attention to it. This is something which has us failed in number of ways but we are not ready to work on it. It’s our responsibility to focus on what we think is working against us. If we know what is going wrong and we know how to make it right , we can end up simplifying lot of things and can get tasks done.
In simple words will power is an urge from within to get the job the done. Either good or bad it’s applicable to both tasks.
You are time.
When I say you are time it simply means that time is in your control. In your control not in terms of time travel but in terms of time management. Efficient use of time can lead to efficient way of life.
How to help yourself ?
We have so many resources at our disposal to help ourselves and get number of jobs done in a day. We can watch videos from YouTube. There are number of channels and numerous experts to help you with time management. We can use keywords to browse information on Google and we can find number of blogs on time management.
We are in an age where making an excuse that we don’t know anything is itself an excuse to escape from what we can do.
I am not here to tell you the ways to manage your time. Because so much information is available at your desk and we can use the same to make our life better.
So show some willingness and get the job done with no excuses.
Many times people have asked me if its alright to prove your credibility to someone. i say it depends on the situations and above all it depends on you , what , why and to who you choose to prove your credibility its all on you.
Answer these following questions before you choose to prove your credibility to someone.
q1:- Is it important to prove your credibility ?
q2:- Does the situation demands it ?
q3:- Does it gives you internal satisfaction ?
q4:- Does it earns you respect ?
q5:- Is it worthy enough for you to prove it to people ?
q6:- Why have you decided to prove ?
And there are many more . internal conflicts never ends. but proving yourself to someone is like investing time in demanding respect from people. its not worth it. try to be self sufficient and and upgrade yourself everyday. get new skills and do something which contributes to your personality.
Remember , its not what you do , its how you do can make all the difference.