You love her from the bottom of your heart and ready to do anything possible in a good way. you can’t live without her and think about her all the time. you are good enough to balance love and life and give ample space in relationship so that she don’t feel uncomfortable. you are ready for her whenever and wherever she needs you. you sacrifice everything to make sure that she remains happy and don’t let her know the pain you are going through.
Why you do all this ? what is the motive and what is the purpose ? what makes you do this ? what drives you and motivates you ?
Often you come across these questions in relationship and try to find what you are doing is right or wrong. or try to find if this is a right approach to relationship.
A guy and a girl going around for few months , they are happy together, everything is going nice . they compliment each other and dreams together to make their own small world. they say three magical words to each other ” I LOVE YOU ” and swear by it . things changes after sometime ,life changes ,priorities changes and they don’t say ”I LOVE YOU ” anymore to each other. it all seems to get over for them and they realize they made mistake by being together. they should never have said ”I LOVE YOU”. they regret their decision and move on with life to find someone else to say ”I LOVE YOU” again.
In today’s time its easy to say I love you every now and then since there is no shortage of love. you fall in love with one and break up after sometime to fall in love again. love has become so easy these days that we don’t give importance to it anymore and take it for granted and think that life is too short to live and there be no love tomorrow you better go searching for it now. may be we should not go searching for love outside. may be we should not go looking for that special someone outside. what we should do is to love ourselves first and make ourselves important and special so that what we are looking for comes to us , not we go out looking for it in this world.
This world has become very small now. social networks ,dating websites, communities have made it easy to develop relationship with people even from far end. you register yourself on dating websites ,pay the price for better services ,make a nice profile and post attractive images online to invite more and more viewers. the other day you log in to your profile only to see tons of emails in your inbox from people around who are looking to develop relationship with you. you feel happy and think that you have scored big one here and ready for another. Its a way of life and its ok to have this kind of approach and there is nothing wrong in it. Its all in the attitude , are you serious in your approach ? or are you only wasting your time and others.
Don’t give anyone any false hopes and don’t show them dreams which are out of reach. its not good to play with someone’s life nor its good to play with someone’s emotions. respect what you have , respect what you are about to get into. if you love a woman ,stay with her come what may . if you love someone so much that even if he / she walks away from you ,you still remain loyal to them ,don’t think you are out of the game or don’t think that you are no value to them , its the truth that they are missing you and they still love you . you love that special one so much and stayed loyal to them , you stayed with them at all times either near or far away but you are with them emotionally if not physically , value this in you that you are so strong that you are still moving on with life with this love which give you pain and makes you happy. its a love which you have always been proud of , its a love which has always made you feel more wanted and made you feel strong and motivated you to go any heights to make sure that the person you love knows that how much you love her/ him.
Even then , its easy to say that love don’t happen once but many times. yes its true , its does happen many times in one life. you can always have one love after another . you can always have good relationship after another. but again everything comes down to an approach . everything comes down an attitude.
When you feel you love someone and that someone is not good enough to realize your true value ask these questions to yourself .
what is the reason she / he not responding ?
why is she / he so quiet ?
why is she / he not answering your phone calls or replying to your mails ?
why there is an attitude of ignorance ?
It could be anything , any reason and any excuse will do to answer these questions. may be there is a possibility that he / she want you to move on with life and want you to be a better person . if this is how they are thinking you need to make sure that they understand that life don’t end with them . you need to make them realize that there is life without them and there is life after them. you should tell me that yes I loved you but I can still live without you. you cherish the time you had together and value your relationship and take pride in it , she / he know that and they still love you for everything but may be they don’t want to be with you. accept it . but don’t let them go out of your life. love them the way you have loved so far . stay loyal to them you may never know when they will need you again. trust them and have faith in the person you really loved.
Its easy to say ”I LOVE YOU ” but its tough to stand by it. its really tough to stay with person you love with today’s fast paced and ever changing life style. rarely you get people who are loyal to their once partners who have left them. people call this stupid but its not stupidity its taking pride in what you have valued ,its taking pride in what you have cherished.
You love your woman or man , make sure you stay with them ,come what may ,never leave them. this world is horrible at the same time its beautiful ,its all in the attitude. you want love , you give love . you want pain , you give pain.
Say ”I LOVE YOU” to someone special today and make sure you really mean it and stick to it . believe me it will come to you.
These three magical words are indeed magical , we only need realize its value ,to you may be these are only three letters but to someone its a matter of life and death.
Value it !