I Love You ! Is it tough to say and easy to stand by ?


You love her from the bottom of your heart and ready to do anything possible in a good way. you can’t live without her and think about her all the time. you are good enough to balance love and life and give ample space in relationship so that she don’t feel uncomfortable. you are ready for her whenever and wherever she needs you. you sacrifice everything to make sure that she remains happy and don’t let her know the pain you are going through.

Why you do all this ? what is the motive and what is the purpose ? what makes you do this ? what drives you and motivates you ?

Often you come across these questions in relationship and try to find what you are doing is right or wrong. or try to find if this is a right approach to relationship.

A guy and a girl going around for few months , they are happy together, everything is going nice . they compliment each other and dreams together to make their own small world. they say three magical words to each other ” I LOVE YOU ” and swear by it . things changes after sometime ,life changes ,priorities changes and they don’t say ”I LOVE YOU ” anymore to each other. it all seems to get over for them and they realize they made mistake by being together. they should never have said ”I LOVE YOU”. they regret their decision and move on with life to find someone else to say ”I LOVE YOU” again.


In today’s time its easy to say I love you every now and then since there is no shortage of love. you fall in love with one and break up after sometime to fall in love again. love has become so easy these days that we don’t give importance to it anymore and take it for granted and think that life is too short to live and there be no love tomorrow you better go searching for it now. may be we should not go searching for love outside. may be we should not go looking for that special someone outside. what we should do is to love ourselves first and make ourselves important and special so that what we are looking for comes to us , not we go out looking for it in this world.

This world has become very small now. social networks ,dating websites, communities have made it easy to develop relationship with people even from far end. you register yourself on dating websites ,pay the price for better services ,make a nice profile and post attractive images online to invite more and more viewers. the other day you log in to your profile only to see tons of emails in your inbox from people around who are looking to develop relationship with you. you feel happy and think that you have scored big one here and ready for another. Its a way of life and its ok to have this kind of approach and there is nothing wrong in it. Its all in the attitude , are you serious in your approach ? or are you only wasting your time and others.

Couples-in-Love-love-stories-15142617-395-400       Don’t give anyone any false hopes and don’t show them dreams which are out of reach. its not good to play with someone’s life nor its good to play with someone’s emotions. respect what you have , respect what you are about to get into. if you love a woman ,stay with her come what may . if you love someone so much that even if he / she walks away from you ,you still remain loyal to them ,don’t think you are out of the game or don’t think that you are no value to them , its the truth that they are missing you and they still love you . you love that special one so much and stayed loyal to them , you stayed with them at all times either near or far away but you are with them emotionally if not physically , value this in you that you are so strong that you are still moving on with life with this love which give you pain and makes you happy. its a love which you have always been proud of , its a love which has always made you feel more wanted and made you feel strong and motivated you to go any heights to make sure that the person you love knows that how much you love her/ him.

Even then ,  its easy to say that love don’t happen once but many times. yes its true , its does happen many times in one life. you can always have one love after another . you can always have good relationship after another. but again everything comes down to an approach . everything comes down an attitude.

When you feel you love someone and that someone is not good enough to realize your true value ask these questions to yourself .

what is the reason she / he not responding ?

why is she / he so quiet ?

why is she / he  not answering your phone calls or replying to your mails ?

why there is an attitude of ignorance ?

Matching-Tattoos-for-Couples-idea     It could be anything , any reason and any excuse will do to answer these questions. may be there is a possibility that he / she want you to move on with life and want you to be a better person . if this is how they are thinking you need to make sure that they understand that life don’t end with them . you need to make them realize that there is life without them and there is life after them. you should tell me that yes I loved you but I can still live without you. you cherish the time you had together and value your relationship and take pride in it , she / he know that and they still love you for everything but may be they don’t want to be with you. accept it . but don’t let them go out of your life. love them the way you have loved so far . stay loyal to them you may never know when they will need you again. trust them and have faith in the person you really loved.

Its easy to say ”I LOVE YOU ” but its tough to stand by it. its really tough to stay with person you love with today’s fast paced and ever changing life style. rarely you get people who are loyal to their once partners who have left them. people call this stupid but its not stupidity its taking pride in what you have valued ,its taking pride in what you have cherished.

You love your woman or man , make sure you stay with them ,come what may ,never leave them. this world is horrible at the same time its beautiful ,its all in the attitude. you want love , you give love . you want pain , you give pain.

Say ”I LOVE YOU” to someone special today and make sure you really mean it and stick to it . believe me it will come to you.

These three magical words are indeed magical , we only need realize its value ,to you may be these are only three letters but to someone its a matter of life and death.

Value it !

Give me a place to stand and I will move the World


Got a gun in my hand but not to shoot anyone but to target something. to aim at something I need to focus and let my thoughts leave my brain, my brain should not be busy when I make my aim and decide to target what I am aiming at . my eyes should have focus and don’t have to get disturbed by things around. I am aiming and I want to achieve it , I want to conquer it come what may , I have to win it at any cost , its mine and only mine and no one can stop me from achieving it. it has to be me , a winner. there are plenty like me around but I need not to be nervous and think I am second to someone. I am second to none and I am not inferior. I accept what god has given me but  god don’t decide my destiny . its ok to have the kind of body I have but I can always make it better and better and better. its ok to have a height of an ordinary but I can always make my personality better and better and better. let me aim what I am targeting at ,let me aim what I want , let me aim what I want to achieve .

I say these words all the time ” I am the man , I am strong”, ” I am the man , I am strong” . its important for me , it gives me motivation and encourages me to go deadly for my own good. but its needs an action. I take all the pain for an action to deliver results . I take all the pain to stay hungry and thirsty to get what I want. after all it takes a little to decide who is a winner and who is a loser. let me aim what I am aiming at , I got a gun in my hand and I have to aim the target which is there right in front my eyes and I have to win it. I am sweating , I am hungry and I am thirsty but this little fraction of a second will decide my destiny , I only have to give a little , just  a little and then it will be all over.


Give me a place to stand and I will move the World.

You better give me my place or I will find one for myself. you better give me what I deserve or I will give you an offer you can’t refuse. an offer ”you give me motivation and I will give you results” .

Let me ask something to myself

When I am procrastinating and not feeling like doing anything or not being motivated enough to perform a task ,its because the task itself is unpleasant and uncomfortable to me . for instance if I say that I need to clean the house but I don’t enjoy cleaning , I will not do it , its because I am not motivated enough to clean the house as I don’t enjoy cleaning. and on the other hand If I will have some guests visiting me , I have to clean my house. so here is the motivation to me that guests are visiting my house and i should clean it even though i don’t enjoy cleaning but its important for me since this is the only motivation i have which is good enough for me to do what i don’t like to do. i need to know what i am doing and why i am doing.


Break Your Goal Down into Smaller Pieces

Its important to have big goals but its even important to break your goal into smaller pieces. its very easy to get intimidated by big goals ,aspirations and desires. but if you start breaking your goals into small sections it will be easy for you target and achieve your goals. like if i have a blog where i want to have 1000 visit a month , this is something seemingly impossible . but if i draft one post in my blog and start with it few days a week it will some day take me to over 1000 hits on my blog. when i started my blog i started casually only to pen down my thoughts on it and with slow and steady efforts and motivation today i have over 29,000 hits on my blog. its feels great to have numbers , big numbers but every number or every counting begins with number one .so the first step needs to be taken .

Celebrate Your Success

Its easy to look down at yourself if you have not achieved your goal . in the process of achieving big we always forget to appreciate the small steps we took and the small goals we have achieved. its important to know that small building blocks are always a foundation to something big. only a tip of an iceberg is visible in an ocean but under water its more than that. so lets not count those small efforts out and lets celebrate all we have sacrificed to gain big. lets start celebrating our small success which came in a way to get big and start rewarding ourselves , lets make ourselves feel important. can you train your dog without rewarding him for small things he do ? no you can’t . so lets celebrate success and start rewarding ourselves.

Imagine Having Already Achieved It

Imagine and visualize ,  how good would you feel when you have reached your goal ? think about it. think like you have already achieved your goal, think like a winner, think like you have reached your target and the feeling you have is out of this world, what would you do when you have reached the place where you always wanted to be ? you might feel proud , relived, happy , satisfied, secure or emotional. focus on that feeling and keep reminding yourself on how would you feel and how its going to be . that feeling should keep you motivated for a constant action towards your goal.


Get Inspired

Read stories, watch movies, listen to successful people and follow them , study them , how they have achieved what you want to achieve. get inspiration from daily successful quotes said by great yet modest people. like i want to win an Oscar , i have an Oscar image in my room and i look at it every single day as it keeps on reminding me that i want Oscars and someday i will reach it. small things may sound very small but makes a big difference between talking and doing. imagine yourself in place of successful people , imagine how big their heart was ,some of your biggest heroes had biggest hearts in the world and how badly they wanted to achieve what they have achieved. let them inspire you to achieve your goal , let them inspire you to go for the kill.

Get Help and Support When You’re Feeling Unmotivated

You can’t be motivated all the time and you can’t be 100% motivated all the time , its ok to be demotivated at times , we are only humans , who have emotions and emotions can shake. but in times of demotivation get help from your friends and family members. we are social animal and we live in a society where we can’t escape people. so use them to your own good. seek motivation from them . if you don’t want to get help from others talk to yourself and motivate yourself. motivation comes and go . so its ok to be not motivated all the time. you can’t be and you can’t have people all the time to motivate you. motivation has to come from inside, so let it out and motivate you.

Believe me you got the will you can move the mountains. there are amazing and tons of successful stories around the globe where people have fought against all odds to get what an ordinary human can’t . everyone is an ordinary in one way but what make them extraordinary is an effort to become extra in the group of ordinary. so lets go for this extra which makes you special.

Feel motivated , feel energetic …………………………..its you who can make the difference.

Don’t let anyone give you your place, you better take it ,you take your stand and find your place ,trust me you will move this world .