Stand Tall


Standing right next to my baby who is taller to me , makes me stand tall and makes feel more like a man and her more feminine.

Never ever a day when i thought about me being little short in height.

Or why i should even think about it ? is this even necessary ? i guess i have better things to think about.

Though i got an average height but somewhere down the line it makes me think ” what difference it makes in me being little short ? have i lost everything in life ? have i lost my motive , objective , my passion , my soul , my love , my life , everything ?

How cool it is for me think this way and putting myself under constant pressure that , oh ! i am little short , had i been little tall or good height , it could have been a different story all together.

These alas and sighs are of no use , and why crying over those things which are part of your life and your personality ,  i am to the world to what i am to myself , rest is null and void . it holds no importance for me being short , tall , black or white . whats more important is how i feel about myself.

It feels great when you love someone , it feels great to be in relationship and to be loved by someone. its  great to be a partner to somebody . when you share your everything with this one person. bed, food , shelter, love, hate , anger and emotions . everything . and when you stand next to this person , holding hands together , its a great feeling.

Usually a woman want her man to be a taller to her. but if does not happen , it becomes emotionally oriented decision. you have emotions strong for this person , short or tall you will stay with them.

We can live and can’t live without each other. but we both know that we want each other more than ever.

Tall or short are two sides of a coin. flip it either ways , if you are happy in your own skin then flipping a coin wont matter.


when i helped a woman in distress



Few days ago , i was going back to my home along with my friend . we had finished our russian language classes at 8:30 pm  and were walking along the road talking on number of topics. we had a cup of tea and sipped all the way and enjoying the generous weather which was for some reason was little too generous that night. we were in CP , indian manhattan . it was late at night and roads had started to deserted. as we reached metro station we saw a woman in conversation with an auto driver. we did not pay any attention to it because it was not our business and it was a common sight. as we stepped on to the stairs of metro station , woman came to me and asked for a change , she was carring 500 indian rupee and had no change to give it to auto driver. she was a young woman in t shirt and jeans with a bag on her back , it appeared that she was coming from some classes. she looked like college goer. she asked if i have money to give it to auto driver because auto driver had no change and she had no change either. she also said that auto driver had charged too much money which he should not. its a common case with auto drivers in delhi so i was not surprised ed. i asked my friend for a change as i too was not carrying any change. unfortunately that day neither of us was carrying any change , we never had to because we had metro card with money in it so we never had to worry about any paper money.

Me and my friend we looked at each other , did not know how to  help helpless young woman , in general people leave if they are unable to help someone , and in this case it was a mere change of money. 80% of the time people will leave. only 20% of them will stick around to see any help can be provided. likewise my friend was asking me to leave as we are about to enter the station and train was approaching. i could have left too but i was not ready to leave , i wanted to stay there until gets money from someone. my friend asked me many times to move as she was a stranger and she was not our concern but i was thinking otherwise, i was thinking that she is also someone’s daughter , she will too become someone’s wife and mother , i can’t let her stay here at night and asking for money from strangers. its dangerous for her to go around with men. above all auto driver will  not let her go.

i could see her tense and she knew that she is in trouble and she is a lonely woman alone outside the station late at night with not many people around. i decided to stay till she get the money and she failed to get any money from anyone. she i decided to help. i reached to her and asked if i can pay money to auto driver , she of course rejected my decision but i insisted and later she allowed me to pay , i was not seeking for her approval anyway in this situation but i thought may be out of courtesy  i should ask her. so i paid from my pocket and i paid more than the entire expense as i too had no change so i had to give whatever i had in  my pocket. she resisted not to do it but i was ready , after all it was only money.

auto driver of course was happy , her got fortune. he left. and that woman had sigh of relief. she looked at me and said thank you , i said , its alright. and then she rushed towards the station. this what i wanted , rush towards the station. i friend was of course looking at me with mischief and called me stupid of course but i am not here seek someone permission and someone’s judgement about what he or she think about me. i was happy with what i did and i think it was need of an hour to help someone in need and i was feeling good about it. that woman might be thinking that i am an idiot or she might be praising me for my steps which i took.

She left to her home safely , i was happy .

“A man should clinch his fist only to save woman not to destroy her.”

Distance to cover


Recently i came across an article which was about a man from india who travels about
250 km to do his duty.he drives a car and go all the way to do his job and
covers 200 plus kilometres.he also returns from his duty in the evening and
covers the same distance so in all he complete a stretch of 500 km. all in one
day. So you can imagine the time he spend on roads. He leaves his family about
5 hours prior to job so that he can reach in time. When he returns home most of
his family members go to sleep. So because of the distance he covers , his social
life , family life also gets affected . But as they say duty calls. So he does
his duty with utmost responsibility.

people wonder why So much sacrifice for one job which is so far from home? I do
not wish to travel this much even if I get paid heftily. I have life besides
work which is important to me and so as the case with everyone. But even then
sometimes we give more importance to work than life because we know
life can’t be without work. We can’t earn our living without a job. To survive
in this world we must move out of our home and sweat hard to help ourselves and
others. No one is going to help you for free and you can’t expect anyone to
come forward and support you as everyone is concern about worries and hardships
life brings to them.

I also
see people travel far distance to earn their living. Even though they hate
their job and do not wish to continue with their services because they don’t
want to cover far distance.but they have no choice and have no option but to
continue with their job and travel. What makes them do they don’t want
to do ? What makes them continue with something they don’t wish to do ? Why do
we see limited options for ourselves? Why do we limit ourselves to small things
and shy away from big changes?

This is
because we don’t wish to take risks and we do not want to leave our comfort
zone. We want things to be simple and not complicated. But those who take risks
often end up with something new while others don’t. People cover miles and
miles in search of something new and when we don’t find it we settle for

We cover
lot of distance for our duty but how far we can go? This is something which
only you can answer.



Very few of us have the courage to fight for others.most of us fight for themselves , a
sense of selfishness , pain for others but not for us , greediness , others
should be poor but we should be rich. We should have everything we need but we
don’t care much about others. How hostile this world has become. We don’t want to live but also don’t want to die because we have so many objectives and
so many ambitions that a life of hundred years seem short. We want more and
more and we want more of everything which include our lives. But unfortunately
we don’t have enough time and enough reason for others.

Recently I was going through an article which was about eye donation. How many of us
donate eyes for less fortunate people who can’t see ? Answer is obvious , very
few of us do that. We are about 7 billion people on this planet but very few of
us think about donating our eyes this is because most of us are always tied to
our daily routine and commitments.


Eyes are life and life is vision. If we can’t see we can’t live. Spare a thought about
those who are less fortunate and can’t see . How different is their lives from
us and how they live. It’s so tough.imagine life without eyes and everything
will be dark. Even a thought about it , is scary. Think about those people who
are without eyes. How tough its for them to survive. How difficult its for them
to perform daily task. How tough its for them to socialise with people on
regular basis. It’s tough.

Think about how simple we can make life for them if we contribute our bit. How easy it can be for them to do their regular task if we help them. How happy they can be if we do something to make them happy. We don’t have to buy expensive gifts for them or give them money or get them a job which pay hefty salary they don’t need. It’s of no use to them. What we should do, is
show them that they are strong and they don’t need support from anyone. We
should make them feel strong and make them feel valuable so that they can do
something with their lives instead they see themselves weak and burden to the


Many times people commit suicide when they feel that they are not important to
anyone , not loved by anyone and not valuable to the society they live in.
Sense of shame and insecurity sinks in and they shy away from meeting people ,
they hide in the closet and refrain themselves from any interaction. Some of
them start taking drugs to release there pain and confidence also takes a hit.

When anyone like this goes through pain it’s critical for us to
show our support to them so that they don’t feel isolated. If we isolate them
then it will become an excuse for them to hurt themselves. And as a human on
humanitarian grounds we show our willingness to help them.

Remember,we will not become strong by pulling someone down but by lifting someone up
the ladder.

People who come forward to help less fortunate are TITANS. They think about others
first before they think of themselves.for them others happiness is first and
their own joy is secondary. For them its important that you smile first , you
eat food first and you sleep first before they think about themselves. People
like these are Titans and its as simple as that because there are not many of
them in this world.

So be a

an escape


An escape

What is an escape ?

An escape is a way out of something which we don’t like or like.

Now it can be anything. you can also escape from something which you don’t want to loose or you can escape from something which is very close to your heart. We are scared of number of things and we have number of fears. We have insecurities but we don’t tell this to anyone only because we don’t want to tell anyone that we are weak. Being insecure is not a weakness but it’s natural for us to be insecure. That’s what make us humans. And a human will have an urge to escape from something.

Life is a box of chocolates as said in a famous Hollywood blockbuster “Forrest Gump”. But it’s not like this in actual life. We all hope that life will become a box of chocolate or at least close to it but things don’t fall in place as we expect them to be. Hence future is unpredictable and so we have insecurities. We all try to run from our insecurities as we don’t want to face them. We all want to be good and want to have good life but to make our life good we must go through hardships. If we don’t then life will have no motive and we don’t want to live without any objective.


So there is no escape from hardships and difficulties. We must toil and sweat hard to make our life purposeful. We must have a mind without any doubts when we begin our day. We must know what to do on a given day to get the job done. There are no excuses and there is no escape.

Some wise guy said “ two of the most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day when you know why.

Nobody tells us our purpose when we grow but as we come in contact with our society we realize that people around us are only to let us know our purpose. People teach us all the time and tell us what to do and what not to do. Life becomes a kind of show where we act but director is someone else and somebody writes a script.